M.A.
It could very well be too late. However, I vote on OC over Wildwood. I teach high school and it seems Wildwood is where all of my graduates get homes for "senior week" which is actually senior summer... of drinking and getting arrested! :o) Have you thought about the DE beaches? I love Rehoboth. Though it's thought to be only a gay beach, it is gay friendly, but very family friendly as well!